Wednesday, January 31, 2018

Patriot Guard Riders Comfort and Strengthen Grieving Military Families by Laura Bush Jenkins

 
You may remember emotional television segments from a decade ago highlighting tough bikers in red bandannas and black leather jackets appearing at military funerals, revving engines and standing at attention with American flags, intercepting distracting protesters.  

Today, volunteer motorcyclists in our area known as Patriot Guard Riders show an active presence at military funerals, respectfully supporting fallen soldiers and mourning families who sacrificed not only in this current war, but during the Vietnam War and World War II.

It may not be as dramatic as highlighted on TV, but under-the-radar acts of service eliminate isolation grieving families sometimes experience and provide closure and acknowledgement one's service was remembered and understood.

"We're like a mist," says District Captain Roy Hankinson, a U.S. Navy veteran of Elizabeth City.  A motorcyclist since age 16, Hankinson participated in at least 500 funerals with Patriot Guard Riders over 8 years.

"We are welcomed in the morning, like the sun coming up, then we disappear [to help another family.]"

Hankinson personally became involved when his future son-in-law was killed serving in the line of duty in Afghanistan.  While at a local McDonalds in Virginia Beach, he noticed Patriot Guard volunteers preparing for a mission and became curious.  The group later came out to support Hankinson and his family during a difficult time, and he realized more could be done to make an impact using an enjoyable hobby.

The group is open to anyone regardless of his or her political views, religious background, or affiliation with military service.  Unlike formal clubs with attendance and uniform requirements, there is no criteria for participation besides agreement to an honor code demonstrating respect to fallen service members and their families as well as to first responders and law enforcement, whom they also stand for.

Volunteers need not own a motorcycle.  Vehicles are needed to store and transport flags and water, as well as render assistance to bikers in the event of a potential breakdown.  With advance communication, children and families can show their support by holding flags at a funeral, cemetery, or church service.

Hankinson estimates Patriot Guard volunteers in his chapter have the capacity in which "we could do one funeral mission a day" upon invitation and request.  Patriot Guard riders do not refuse attending a funeral for any veteran, even in the unfortunate event a veteran commits suicide.

Funeral directors, clergy, and family members are often unaware the Patriot Guard is available at no cost.  You can contact the group and request their presence by completing an online request at patriotguard.org or calling Roy Hankinson personally at 757 553 2470.  

"It's my way of giving back," Roy Hankinson says," noting how a small act of kindness can speak into a person's life and multiply to make a difference.

Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Northeast North Carolina Family History – Happy 2018 and hello to new discoveries… -- by Irene Hampton



We have had a lot of changes in our lives in 2017. We left Elizabeth City after 30 years and bought a new house, which actually returned my husband to Currituck where his family has lived for hundreds of years. I worked over the summer at a new job at the waterpark and learned new things as well as making new friends. And as the year ended I had the opportunity to start working at the Whalehead in historic Corolla as an historic interpreter. For me, there probably could not be a job I would enjoy more!

We have always been aware of my husband’s ties to Corolla. His great-grandfather, Solomon Baum Sanderlin was a surfman with the Life Saving Service from October of 1882 until it became part of the United States Coast Guard, finally retiring in June of 1919. He worked at Paul Gamiel’s Hill and Jones Hill/Whale’s Head/Currituck Beach and oral family history passed down by his widow, indicates that at times he would substitute for the lighthouse keeper at the Currituck Beach Lighthouse.



His Coast Guard records indicate he was No. 2 Surfman at the U.S. Coast Guard Station, Seventh District, Currituck Beach, Corolla. He was 51 and a half years old, 5 feet 8 and a half inches tall and a whole 140 pounds in 1915. The enlistments ran for about a year and he was rated in four categories: Proficiency in Rating, Sobriety, Obedience and Conduct. In 1915 and 1916 he rated “5” for excellent in all four, but in 1917-1918 his “Proficiency” dropped to “4” or very good. His February 1918 contract indicates he had gained 10 pounds to a more robust 150 pounds and had signed on “for the period of the war not to exceed three years” which wording also appeared on his final contract in October of 1918. He was retired on June 10, 1919 for over 30 years of service with permanent disability. Total service was listed as 32 years and 10 months with the Life-Saving Service and 3 years and 7 months with the Coast Guard.
He was not finished working for the government though, as he became Corolla’s third postmaster in August of 1924, a position he held until John W. Austin took over that post in October of 1935. “The Whalehead Club, Reflections of Currituck Heritage” by Susan Joy Davis on page 54, credits Sol Sanderlin and Val Twiford for building “Whales Head Baptist Church and a schoolhouse…” We have a couple of original photographs with his daughters Lillie and Della in front of the school with their classmates. Their brothers, Ernest and Roy must also be in the pictures but we have not identified them. (Random piece of Sanderlin Currituck history, Solomon’s father, Jackson Sanderlin was a captain in North Carolina’s 1st Regiment, Currituck County, 1st Brigade for the North Banks District.)

Now (finally) the tie to Whalehead in historic Corolla… After I started working there it occurred to me that Solomon was the postmaster for most of the time period the Knights were in Corolla, 1922-1934. We know that the Knights made sure that every villager in Corolla received a goose at Christmas time which therefore would have included Solomon and his wife, Fannie Tillett Hill Sanderlin. Who knew that almost 100 years later his great-grandson’s wife would have the opportunity to work in the amazing home of the Corolla Island owners they were acquainted with.

And the co-incidence becomes even more amazing from a totally unexpected family perspective – mine! It is fairly well known that Mr. Knight’s second wife, Marie Louise Lebel Knight was French-Canadian. When I interviewed at Whalehead, we discussed her background and the fact that Marie-Louise’s mother was a Roy. Well I have Roy’s on both my mother’s and father’s sides. After some serious hours of French-Canadian research it turns out that Marie Louise Knight and I are 6th cousins­, once, twice and three times removed over Roy, Lebel, Pelletier and Belanger lines. There were only a few hundred French-Canadian families that originally settled Quebec so being tied to one will usually tie to many others. I am still working on the connections on our Ouellet and Michaud ancestors as well as a few others. If I hadn’t started working at the Whalehead I would never have known this quirky connection I have to a corner of coastal North Carolina!

Your new year’s challenge is to review old information with new eyes. Who knows what totally unexpected connections are hiding there as I have just ­discovered for my husband and myself.

Monday, January 29, 2018

Estate Planning – What a Great New Year’s Resolution - by Stella Knight

 



You may not be able to take it with you when you go, but having an estate plan will make sure that your property goes where you want it to go after your death. Whether you are single, married, with or without children, or contemplating a second marriage, everyone should have an estate plan. While the issues confronting each person vary due to their unique situation, it is important to realize that as your life changes, your estate plan also needs to change.
Many people feel that estate planning is only for the wealthy and is done only to save taxes. This is not true. Several reasons to create an estate plan may be:

  1. To make sure your assets are distributed per your wishes.
  2. To decide how and when beneficiaries will receive their inheritance.
  3. To select the person(s) who will manage your estate (executors, trustees, etc.).
  4. To select a guardian for your minor children.
  5. To provide for the orderly continuation or sale of a family business.

Having difficulty getting started? The first steps are to:
  1. Identify your assets.
  2. Identify your liabilities.
  3. Determine how each asset is titled (individually, joint with rights of survivorship, etc.)
What are the essential legal documents for estate planning?
  1. Durable Power of Attorney
  2. Health Care Power of Attorney
  3. Declarations for a Desire for a Natural Death (Living Will)
  4. Last Will and Testament
  5. Trusts – Irrevocable and Revocable
Still unsure about the process?
Consider the alternatives:
  1. There’s no will, it’s unsigned, or no one knows where to find it. Don’t wait for disaster. If you die without a will, the State of North Carolina decides who inherits your property. Don’t miss an opportunity to be able to plan for your grandchildren’s future, especially if your children do not have money management skills. Perhaps you would like to remember your grandson and leave him your golf clubs. Estate planning opens many opportunities that you may not recognize now.
  2. You have not drawn up a power of attorney or healthcare power of attorney. Who will pay your bills, taxes, and make investment decisions if you’re unable to do so due to a mental or physical impairment? No one can predict the unexpected and it is important to plan for emergencies. Who will make your health care decisions when you are unable to do so? If you do not have a spouse, it is important to appoint one of your children or a trusted friend who knows your wishes concerning life support and whether you want heroic measures to keep you alive. Don’t leave these important decisions to a court-appointed guardian.

Don’t wait until a crisis to seek professional advice. It is present-giving time and it is New Year’s Resolution time. Give your family an estate plan. Make sure that if something happens to you, your mark will be on your family’s future. Resolve to be responsible to your loved ones today. When you are in good health and have a clear mind, you have many more options available to you than when decisions are made during a crisis.

North Carolina Outdoor Recreation Industry by Robert Norton





We are extremely blessed to have parents and grandparents that have raised us up with hunting and fishing in our lives. From an early age many of us have been out in the field with our dad, trying to follow in his footsteps. However, we must continue to learn and find interest in those areas of hunting, fishing and boating that remain new to us.

Educating our new generations in sports activities is the next big challenge. The importance of having organizations out there to help teach and encourage the youth to participate in hunting and safe shooting, fishing and boating activities is critical. If our new generations are not educated on the benefits that hunting and fishing offers to conservation and wildlife management, in future years our ecosystem could become out of balance. Our new generations need to become educated on our second amendment rights. Having mentors teach proper gun safety and hunting etiquette will ensure that we are becoming responsible gun owners. How to fish fresh water, on shore and off shore and the benefits to our region for economic growth related to all outdoor sports activities. This is one of the most important steps in maintaining our constitutional rights. Having programs geared towards guided youth hunts, youth only hunts and extended season youth hunts helps with getting our generation involved in the outdoors. Having programs dedicated for youth to experience a hunt and fish for the first time, getting some extra practice or hunting an animal that is new to them are important to keep us excited and engaged within the hunting community.
In our community and school sports programs we must establish hunting, fishing and boating sporting training with year around activities partnering with education, police, game and conservation professionals. Research and establish and support a local Youth Sports Adventure chapter, mentor youth hunting, fishing, small boat training and sponsor local activities.
We are very fortunate in our area to have community partnerships with education, police, game and conservation professionals, church and clubs helping to enlighten our new generations on the importance of being educated and speaking up for everyone rights.
Ask how you can assist in establishing a chapter and education center.



Robert (Bob) Norton is an Engineer, Business Developer in Real Estate and Construction with over 38 years National experience in Private, Government projects licensed in over 25 states.
His career started with working in construction, College and eight years military service with the US Army, Combat Heavy Equipment Engineers building bridges, dams, highways and assigned to Canadian US Lock Seaway Locks.
Mr. Norton is a Small Business Consultant/Mentor that offers a wide range of programs and economic development services related to start ups, innovation technology, agriculture and promoting the NC Outdoor recreation industry
Mr. Norton specializes in developing public private partnerships and developing Youth Adventure Programs for Northeastern NC.
After a successful business career in Real Estate development and construction, Mr. Norton now coaches other people to achieve the same success while starting a new Cabin, Cottage, Camp business in Elizabeth City combined with promoting Outdoor Recreation and Sports business to promote economic growth and future jobs in a large industry.
Email: ibnorton@msn.com, Phone 252-267-2200 see Facebook pages and Linked In sites.

Wednesday, January 24, 2018

Monday, January 22, 2018

Pedestrian Rights and Responsibilities

In North Carolina, pedestrians on the road or highway have limited rights but many responsibilities.  The adage that “The pedestrian always has the right of way” is not the law of North Carolina.  These rules are in place not only to provide for the safety of both pedestrians and motorists, but to also allow for the orderly and predictable flow of traffic.

The primary rule that pedestrians must follow in North Carolina is to pay attention and take reasonable care for their own safety.  This means that, no matter where they are, pedestrians must not intentionally put themselves in harm’s way, whether they have the right of way or not.  If a pedestrian sees that another vehicle is so close as to be a danger to the pedestrian, whether the vehicle is travelling legally or illegally, the pedestrian must try to avoid the vehicle and take reasonable and prudent steps (no pun intended) to remain safe, even if it means leaving the roadway or crosswalk.  The pedestrian should never hold his ground believing that the vehicle must avoid him/her.

When a sidewalk is available, a pedestrian must use the sidewalk, and it is unlawful for a pedestrian to walk on or along the adjacent roadway if a sidewalk is available.  Vehicles, including bicycles, must yield the right of way to pedestrians on sidewalks when the vehicle is emerging from or entering an alley, private road or building entrance which crosses the sidewalk.  When sidewalks are not available, a pedestrian must walk on the far left side of the road, or on the shoulder, facing oncoming traffic.  In that situation, the pedestrian must yield the right of way to approaching traffic.

When crossing a road at an intersection, if a marked crosswalk is available, pedestrians must cross the intersection within the marked crosswalk.  If a marked crosswalk is not available, a pedestrian must cross the intersection in the area where a crosswalk would be marked if it were marked, known as an “unmarked crosswalk.”  When crossing within a marked or within unmarked crosswalk at an intersection controlled by pedestrian or traffic control signals, pedestrians have the right of way if the pedestrian is following the applicable signals.  If crossing at an intersection which is not controlled by pedestrian or traffic control signals, pedestrians have the right of way when crossing within a marked or unmarked crosswalk.

When pedestrian control signals are in place at an intersection, a pedestrian walking in the direction of a WALK signal has the right of way.  Pedestrians are not allowed to begin crossing an intersection to walk in the direction of a DON’T WALK signal.  However, a pedestrian who started crossing while facing a WALK signal may continue to a sidewalk or safety island if the signal changes to DON’T WALK.  If pedestrian control signals are not in place, pedestrians are to follow the traffic control signals when crossing the intersection.

When crossing a road at a place other than an intersection, a pedestrian must yield to all vehicles upon the road.

Obviously, it is illegal for a pedestrian to willfully stand, sit or lie in a roadway and impede traffic.  The only exception to this would be if a protestor in a roadway is fully complying with any local ordinance adopted by that county or municipality.

Hitchhikers are required to stand or walk upon the shoulder of a road but are not allowed upon the roadway itself when soliciting rides.

Bottom Line: When walking on or across a road, be attentive and careful. When driving in the vicinity of pedestrians, be attentive and careful. You are welcome for that insightful legal advice!
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Saturday, January 20, 2018

Jan 2018 Dear Dr Crime



Dr. Crime is a pseudonym for a social scientist holding a Ph.D. degree in sociology and in criminology. He has worked in all major parts of the criminal justice system. Drop him a note at the website www.keepkidshome.net if you or your child is in trouble, he may be able to help, give him a call (252-339-0000).

Dear Dr. Crime: If I have a few drinks I know when I should not drive and most folks are that way. We should not be arrested if we get a bit drunk and drive home. What do you think? Harassed Husband

Dear Drinking Buddy: I can get who came down on your case or you may have been arrested You are dead wrong.
Research from the US Dept of Justice tells us that every day an average of 28 people in the United States are killed by drunks like you must be. That is one death every 51 minutes . When you mix drugs with booze its awful. If you are drunk you alter your brain’s ability to make good judgements. Your sight and coordination are impacted. If you have anything to drink, get someone to take you home, don’t drive.

Dear Dr. Crime: The Indians are pretty well off as crime goes, aren’t they? Billy

Dear Billy: How about Native Americans rather than Indians? They were here first. And, the arrival of others has not been so great for them. Research shows that 4 out of 5 of them have been violent crime victims in their lifetimes.

Dear Doc Crime: If some bum came at me, I could take him down, but I don’t have any idea how to protect myself from internet crimes. What do I do? Before the Internet guy

Dear Older fellow: I know how you feel. My dissertation professor told me he would provide me with top technology to type my dissertation and handed me a bottle of White-Out. Times have changed. I suggest you contact Margrita Harrison, our NCDJ Telemarketing Fraud Investigator and ask for their wonderful pamphlets on avoiding scams and identity theft. Our NCDJ is an agency we can be proud of, and they will respond to you. Also the current issue of BottomLine Personal has an article for you, “Beware These Linkedin Scams”. It also discusses Netflix e-mail scams. I encourage all our readers to see BottomLine Personal.

Dear Dr. Crime: My daughter does not seem to be able to control herself as I taught her. Can you help? Angry Parent

Dear Average Parent: Research in the Journal of Criminal Justice that involved a large number of kids in many countries concluded that teaching self-control is very complex, and parenting with adolescents has less impact that we hope. Culture is important, and boys have less self-control than girls. Keep trying and make the outcomes of her behavior clear to her but don’t get mad.


Dear Dr. Crime: Tell us again how we can help you? Public

Dear Public: First (and this is for everyone) see our web based, anonymous, private, no one knows who you are, site: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/BKYB9GT
All readers please help with this.

Dear Dr. Crime: I hear about Churches developing plans to protect themselves after the Church shooting we saw on TV. What should we do? Rev.

Dear Rev. : I did not foresee this. Our fine Sheriff Perry in Camden County, NC is helping our Churches. Call your local Sheriff and ask if training is available. A recent report on this in the Virginian Pilot indicates it is not uncommon to be prepared, and suggest for more information on Church Security call Sheriff Shelby White at 252 426-5615. The Pew Research Center reports Church membership is dropping. Yet, research clearly shows the impact of religion is to reduce deviance and crime.

Dear Dr. Crime: Do we have more hate now than in the past? Scared Lady

Dear Scared. You have a right to be apprehensive. I encourage everyone to be careful, report unusual events, and know change is happening. The Center for the Study of Hate and Extremism (California State University) reports that hate crimes rose about 5 percent from 2015 to 2016. That research is strong, and concerns individual crimes.

Also, if your child is a “youthful offender” and- or having problems with drugs, Dr. Crime can offer confidential suggestions on how to work with the criminal justice system. Or, a formal criminological report for a court or other authority may help. For more information see www.keepkidshome.net or email drcrime@keepkidshome.net



NCJ 249374    

Title:

Importance of Parenting in the Development of Self-Control in Boys and Girls: Results From a Multinational Study of Youth
http://www.pewforum.org/2015/05/12/americas-changing-religious-landscape/

Treasure Hunter - We buy gold and silver

So much retro stuff we can't list it all. 

You just have to come to the store and check it out.

The Treasure Hunter.

252-722-6078


Friday, January 19, 2018

Health & Nutrition Strategies for Cancer Survivors & Everybody Else Jan 2018

By Warren Green

WHAT'S IN YOUR DIET?

I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday season and prepared to improve their diet and protect their immune system

I'll start with a quote from Cancer Immunologist Drew Pardoll,M.D.;PhD. Bloomberg-Kimmel Institute for Immunotherapy. “Immune therapy is a game changer. We need more research to take us the rest of the distance, but we don't think there is a single cancer that the patient's own immune system ultimately can't beat.” That was a promised update on the subject of Immunotherapy from an earlier article. I'm writing it at this time because I lost my precious little sister to a very aggressive small cell lung cancer that metastasized. It took less than four months from diagnosis to demise. Early diagnosis is critical and Immunotherapy is promising cures, not remissions, cures. We live in a very toxic environment. Paying attention to your body and what you put into it is the most important thing you can do to protect yourself against that toxicity, particularly in our country's food chain. I'll do my best to keep you informed and focused. Cancer shouldn't be a death sentence.

In earlier articles my focus was on strategies for cancer survivors. I than expanded to “Everybody Else” and finally, to the subtitle“What's In Your Diet?” I come at the “What's in your diet” part from the perspective of a food safety expert. My first job in the industry was that of a meat inspector for the State of New York. I watched sausage being made, for a living. I went from NYS inspection, to the USDA/FSIS and more complex operations,and from there to headquarters in Washington D.C. the regulatory top of America's food chain.

I worked in the Standards and Labeling Division, where we were responsible for providing labeling guidance, policies and inspection methods to protect consumers from misbranded and economically adulterated meat and poultry. We had to know what ingredients were allowed and how they had to be listed. We used the Federal Register and the Code of Federal Regulations (CFR) to make our determinations . I guess we were the official identifier of fake food. I'll go into detail on the process in my next article.

Finally,the beginning of the year is my diet optimizing time. Last year I eliminated dairy from my diet for that month,I felt so good I made it permanent. This time I'll be removing red meat, and eliminating refined flour and increasing my fruit and fish consumption.

No regional recalls to report.

Let food be your medicine.